What is this girl thinking?

I know this girl pretty well. I started to get a crush on her a while ago, but didn't want to say anything, since we had never openly discussed crushes, and I didn't want to say anything if she already had one. One day she hands me a note saying that she likes me, and she wanted to know if I liked her. I knew her well enough to tell that she was for real; not just pulling me along, so I told her I did. A few months later, I had to move, so I met her to tell her goodbye and we agreed to keep in contact. Shortly after, I suffered a severe concussion, and suffered from temporary amnesia for several months. Within a few days of my recovery, I was invited to a party that she had also been invited to. I was really eager to see her, since I'd sort of been out of touch with the world for a while, and also I really missed her. So I showed up at the party....and she totally ignored me. It was a big one, and there were a LOT of people there, so it's not like she had to run from me, but the few times I managed to catch her eye and try to smile at her or something like that, she looked away from me. Then at the end, I was waiting for her to say goodbye, and she left out a different door. To say I was heartbroken would be an understatement of colossal proportions. I was devastated. I have no clue what she is thinking, since I have been unable to contact her for months. We really loved each other before all this happened, and now I don't know what's happened. Please, please, is there anyone out there who can help me? It feels like the bottom just dropped out of my life, and I don't even know why.



Unless you are a guy with experience in this situation, I would prefer that girls provide answers, if any.



I will be eternally indebted to anyone who assists me with this; thank you.What is this girl thinking?
If you have a her phone number, I would try calling her and say you saw her at the party (but not in a manner that would seem stalkerish) and just tell her since then (and maybe before then) you've been thinking about her and wondered how things are with her.



Some people treat a fall-out differently... maybe she has met someone else and your face gives her uneasiness or as the person said above she was nervous or maybe she thought you didn't keep in contact on purpose. You will never feel at ease until you talk to her so you might as well see if she will give you a chance because you'll be worse off wondering and questioning.
I would consider sending her a message(text/email/IM) asking her in a joking and friendly way: "So hey, why were you avoiding me? Am I that ugly?" She what she says. If she flat out avoided you and ignored you, she was nervous to talk to you.What is this girl thinking?
well did she know what happened to you ? maybe she didn't know and thought you ignored her for awhile and she wanted you to know what it felt like. text or whatever and shell probably read them but just not answer and say something that will make her have to answer then explain.
dude....best story ever, you should make it into a book.What is this girl thinking?
:( im srry about what has happend between you and ur ex-girlfriend. Did u tell her about ur problem and y u guies were not in contact for so long??? my advice. tell her ur srry, even if it isnt ur fualt and try to restor ur friendship

hope this helps!
the only thing that i can think of if that she didn't know that you had a concussion and maybe she thought that you just snubbed her? but never keeping contact with her? if she did know about it, then i have no idea, and im sorry
maybe she tries to contact you and you dont remember, and she prolly thought you were ignoring her
I HATEEEE it when that happens. But truthfully why didn't you go up to her? Not saying that she wasn't int he wrong because i think she partially was since you guys expressed feelings toward each other but she might not have had the courage to walk up to you. You might have intimidated her or she heared something that she didn't like as in you with another girl when you were away. So many things could strike up a reaction like that. Do you still keep in contact with her? if so talk to her sometime and be casual and strike up a conversation and then later on in it bring up the party and why she didn't talk to you. most of the time a girll will tell you right off..i know i would if i was upset about something. Hope i helped and sorry about your situation...
i guss when you were ill you didn't contact her much so may be she had a feeling that you aren't interested in her and then when you met her at the party she didn't wanted to show you that she missed you or was desperate to talk to you. here she was waitin for you and since you didn't approached her so she tried to show you that even she isn't interested in you.

this is lack of communication.

try and talk to her.